Archives for the month of: November, 2013

In life we stray from our upbringing to test whether there is truth to what we have been taught by those wiser than us.  Just like the protocol son, the door swings open for us to return.

HOME AGAIN

Jesus!

You heard my prayers in my despair.

You wiped my eyes and I felt your smile.

Your word you gave to comfort and save.

You healed my body from so much pain.

My burdens you bore and I hurt no more.

You filled my heart with forgiveness and love.

Turning the other cheek, I am not above.

The troubles in my life that I said caused me so much strife, was your way of saving my life.

I was taught as a child that if I stray from your way, you would forgive when I returned with open arms

I run to you now with am humble heart,

Asking for forgiveness from all that I’ve done.

Opening my heart for you to enter in.

Cleanse me from all of my sins .

Your mercy has sustained me from all of my storms.

I am home again.

In my Jesus’ arms.

                                                                                                Author:  Deb’orah C. Momon

                                                                               Date: March 1, 2007

The responsibility of parenting or caring for a love one can many of time cause us to place quality time with our spouses or significant others at the end of the day or wherever we can.  When those opportunities are available we have to take advantage of those moments in time to appreciate one another.

THIS MOMENT IN TIME

Forgetting the responsibilities that life demands.

Forgetting that time continues to pass.

Forgetting that others depend on us.

Forgetting that there is day and night.

Forgetting that the seasons do change.

When we are in the presence of one another,

We forget that everything else exists, because I control, with you,

The time we have to spare.

For this moment in time is for us to reconnect to the life that we committed to share.

                                                            Author:  Deb’orah C. Momon

                                                      Date:  November 30, 2013

We all have experienced that loneliness from the presence of a loved one who has transitioned from earth to glory.  We still recall something about them for days and years to come.  We still share something about them.  There presence is ever so near.  This poem is to memorialize their death and acknowledge their presence even after death.

IN MEMORIAM

Shhhh!

Listen!

Don’t you hear it!

That song that reminds you of them.

It represents that precious un-for-get-able relationship.

 I know you still hear their laughter.

It still lives on in your heart and mind.

That voice that was so firm and assured, telling you everything will be alright,

Mommie, daddy, sister, brother, son, daughter, grandma, grandpa

Their physical presence feels… oh- so- near.

Their lives are like a movie reel being rewound and replayed.

Hearts still mourn of what was and of what could have been.

All ways seeing something, doing something that continues to place

Husband, wife, uncle, aunt, cousin, boyfriend, girlfriend, niece, nephew

In our current presence.

Still remembering that favorite cologne, perfume, nail polish

dress, suit, Bible verse, check out that dance move (Smiling…);

As though they are physically here with us.

They never fully left.

Remnants of some part of their lives still live on.

Each day they planted seeds to grow in their absence;

This is why memories grow founder each day.

Haven’t you caught yourself speaking aloud in conversation with that loved one and then looking

around to make sure no one noticed;

That’s because you were speaking in first person and answering in second person. (laughter)

Haven’t you found yourself revisiting a disagreement in your mind and responding loudly to make your point. (laughter)

It’s o-k…  Memories of those conversations keep living inside us.

To be absent from the body is to be present with the Lord.

Don’t we feel the Lord’s presence, so why shouldn’t we feel theirs?

Close your eyes.

Take a deep breath;

Now exhale.

They’re here…!

Listen to their favorite song.

                                                                    Author:  Deb’orah C. Momon

                                                                            November 2012

Each night before I close my eyes I think of my love.  I say to my love…

I SAY TO MY LOVE

Before this day slips away

and the dew falls to the ground

and the night whispers good morning,

I say to my love,

“I love you!”

Author:  Deb’orah Momon

November 29, 2013

As the holiday season begins, it’s important to remember the reason for each celebration.  This is what I sent to family and friends on Thanksgiving morning.

REMEMBERING THANKSGIVING

Thinking of the many who have less, I am so excited to bless.

Helping those in need, that is such a good deed.

All ways having a giving heart, you will receive more than you thought.

Never taking for granted the lives you touch, because yours has been filled with so so much.

Knowing that you are blessed to be a blessing, so forget about all of the other messes.

Smiling as you prepare for the occasion, oh what a great sensation.

Gladly sharing with others, just like we were taught by our fathers and mothers.

Including others in your plans, now give yourself a big hand.

Very happy for the season, but let’s remember the real reason.

Influencing the mood of the day, now everyone wants to stay.

Nearing the end of the celebration, giving thanks for a successful collaboration.

Good night to all, we will share memories about today’s Thanksgiving on tomorrow’s call.

I love you all!

Author:  Deb’orah Momon

November 27, 2013

 So many people I know turned/turns 50 this year.  People born in 1963.  A girlfriend of mine asked me to write a poem for her sister.  As I wrote I thought about the history, power, and the things we endured and continue to overcome and celebrate from the 60’s.  To the 50 year olds, I salute you!

50 Years In the Making…That’s Me

Born in the 60’s, 63 to be exact

This was my training camp for today’s recap

On my original birth cer- ti- fi-cate

My race was Negro or Negra

Protest were held in order to shop and dine in Riches’ Department Store

At some point… your favorite shopping place

Baby Boomer Baby that’s me

Born out of a covert mission, for our parents to populate the earth

More soldiers needed to carry on our future fight

You see

 I was born in the mist of our race’s social movement for civil rights aimed at outlawing social discrimination

You see

 I was born in the mist of our race’s fight for the restoration of our voting rights.

You see

 I was born in the mist our race’s

 Black Power Movement

Encouraging astute Black Leadership to demand political economic self-sufficiency

You see

 I was born in the mist of our race’s practice of civil rights resistance and nonviolent protests, which resulted in civil disobedient with a purpose

You see

I born when songs of peace and not war and lets stay together was the hope through music; and church on every Sunday and Wednesday, was an unspoken commitment for survival, sanity and spiritual growth

Boycotts, sit-ins, race riots, lynchings, marches, and music for social injustices was the power that changed history in my time

Freedom Ride 1961

March on Washington 1963

Voting Rights Act 1965

Immigration and Nationalization Service 1965

Fair Housing Act 1968

All these rights were established in the 60’s… you see

Blood, sweat, tears, organization, commitment, trust and relationships, amongst all races and religions or it could not be

Murders of our most prominent soldiers

Medger Evers 1963

Malcoln X 1965

Dr. King 1968

These travesties could have shattered every movement

But they strengthened the struggles

Don’t you see?

 My parents had to teach me to succeed in spite of other’s malicious misdeeds

50 Years in the Making

That’s me

Foundationally strong to weather any storm

So when I look back at my life’s past

I know the strength that I pulled from to complete every challenging task

I see the hope that was preached to me

I have the courage that was taught to me

I know the spirit the resides in me

I have succeeded with and without a man

I have been down, but not out

I have been broken, but not forgotten

I have children that I chose to parent on the same principles that I was taught to stand

I have family and friends that talk with me, about me, and through me

I am a soldier

50 Years in the Making…That’s Me

By:  Deb’orah Momon

Date:  June 14, 2013

I recently celebrated the birthday of a woman that I consider my other mom.  The Lord has allowed her to beat breast cancer twice.  She was born in the 1930’s and had an amazing journey of overcoming difficult situations.  She is filled with faith, wisdom, strength, and laughter. I dedicate these words to her.

YOU STILL SOAR LIKE AN EAGLE

Strong, gifted, and black,

Those are just a few facts.

Your history is a “her story” that cannot be duplicated only replicated,

And the replication

Still could not depict the power from within of how you survived and maintained character;

It cannot be fully emulated by an actress’s interpretation of your spoken words.

You are a woman who has been loosed from the trepidations that your life’s journey has spewed;

Good, bad or indifferent.

Born in a country during a time where opportunity

Was not based on your ability or your aptitude to succeed,

But the question of “who yo daddy is and who yo momma is”.

You still soar like an eagle.

Tall brown edgy woman,

Your era was not completely ready for you.

At someone else’s will you had to constantly

Refine,

Confine,

Redefine,

Say you fine

To be allowed your inalienable rights that did not define your destiny.

Oh, but look at you know,

You refine time and grace,

You confine only to allow wisdom to show His grace,

You redefine

The who,

The where,

The what,

The why,

And the how

In your life.

Your existence is not an extension of selfish allowances by others;

It is because your actions of showering others with

Unselfish and unbridled love has made them your footstool.

You not only learned how to turn bitter lemon of fool’s folly into the sweet taste of lemonade,

But you learned how to use the remnants of that bitter lemon to strengthen your soul.

  You still soar like an eagle.

You a are virtuous woman in every sense of the Bible’s description.

Neither your husband, nor your children lack.

Only you know the many tears that you shed for their souls to be fed.

 The prayers that you hummed so death would not even mumble their names.

 Mentally and physically exhausted

From planning their next day before the morn of this day had struck noon.

 In that same space and time you shouted God’s promises He made back to Him,

Benevolently acknowledging that His words are on your lips;

Your mind is stayed on Him;

And your mind, heart, and spirit are renewed daily.

You still soar like an eagle.

To family and friends your love continues to abound.

The truth you tell regarding hidden tales has no place in your temple for them to avail.

 You listen and pray on what is shared and your council is wise.

 You recognize the needs of others and willingly share your blessings,

For this, blessings returned are manifold.

Your supplication unto the Lord for others is a testament to your faith.

 He has already fulfilled your needs and wants

Before birthed in your mind.

You still soar like an eagle.

Your robust laughter is proof that life has a way of being comical regardless of

What plight,

Developmental stage,

Christian walk,

Dramatic scenes,

Good times,

Bad times,

Age,

Race,

Creed or national origin.

You are blessed to be a blessing.

You still soar like an eagle.

By:  Deb’orah Momon

November 16, 2013

Have you ever missed the one you love, the one you share sensual intimate time with.  You imagined their anticipated presence the next time you saw him/her.  Relaxing in suspended time as you realize how you desire the next time.

NATURALISTIC SEDUCTION

I am like a volcano and the natural elements that inhabit me want to erupt.

I have been calm,

but when I close my eyes

I smell your skin locked in my senses.

I see your mesmerizing seductive eyes,

the contour of your lips,

the highness of your of your cheeks,

and the slop of your nose.

I see your smile that is welcoming me.

I feel the energy from you that has a gravitational pull that I succumb to.

I feel your hands that touch me in a place that sits high at my hips, that only you can touch.

As you caress the curve in my back, I feel my knees weaken to submission.

I taste the sweetness of the sugar cane juice from your mouth.

My mind anticipates the moment

I no longer control the release of the desire that I hold for you only.

For you only

will this passion flow.

For you only

will I give that

which can change the days that I have missed you.

Like a treasured time capsule

that holds memories when revealed,

so will your presence release unspoken desires

that only you know how to retrieve and only I know how to receive.

I look forward to enjoying the eruptions.

Naturalistic Seduction.

by:  Deb’orah Momon,  November 12, 2013 at 2:50am